Sunday, August 29, 2010

Too Much Effort, or Not Enough?


I've heard people talk about multiple different ways to bring about a desired result in your life. Some folks say that the way to attract things is by maintaining a relaxed state of mind and not searching too hard for what it is you want to happen. It's reverse psychology of sorts--when you try too hard, you're not relaxed, you force things to occur in an unnatural way, and as a result things don't flow correctly. Relax yourself, don't look too hard, and what you want will come your way.

Others recommend the exact opposite approach: think about what you want constantly and invoke the law of attraction, thereby sending out energy and signals into the universe calling what it is you want to you. Perhaps most often espoused is the blood, sweat and tears strategy--simple hard work to bring what you wish for most into your life.

So I have to ask, which is the best way to get what you want out of your life? Stay relaxed? Great idea. Think about what you want and attract it into your life? Why not? Work your tail off to get where you want to go? Absolutely. I can see value in any of the three strategies, both separately and in tandem, and I'm sure there are even more options than just those named here. The question also becomes when to use which strategy. This is definitely something to ponder, but I have a feeling the best option is a "combo approach": focus on what the object of desire is, put forth effort and energy to reach that goal, and always maintain an inner peace and equilibrium, which may even be the most important factor by a slight edge.

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